For me, and many other women like me, it all begins with a number. Before agreeing to a set-up, as a follow-up response or even playing a flirtatious game, I always find the answer to the question, “So, how old are you? And if you don’t know who the Seavers are from "Growing Pains," then you don’t stand a chance.
doesn’t have a game plan), C) He is the organizer of organized parties (i.e.
a promoter, an event sponsor or PR assistant), D) He brags about taking drugs or not having a consistent job (i.e. Man-children are fun; just don’t expect them to get better later, a la Number 7.9.
Okay, so maybe these guys aren’t all they are hyped up to be.
That being said, early on, a lot of the magic (so to speak) is due to the appeal of their age.
Being the older, wiser man is a power trip for him. It's the emotional version of going from breast buds to boobs!
And that's all about , the said power trip he is getting off on should be overt. Defending your relationship will frequently ruin your friendships.
You’re a single, 20 -something girl; you bet your ass you take that nutritious, well-balanced, home-cooked meal made in a well-furnished and clean apartment (neither of which you’ve encountered in weeks), and you embrace it with open arms.
Just understand that his cooking you dinner is not the same as you two cooking together.
If you're an inexperienced drinker who feels it after 2 bottles of Mike's Hard, that benefits , not you. Among the biggest reasons that he likes you is because you're young.