And as long as they have that, they won’t change their situation.
They may even be doing it to get attention from their boyfriend.
She’ll hang out with you, flirt with you, and even hook up with you.
She talks about how unhappy she is in her relationship and how she’s planning to end it. The women who cheat on their partners and talk about how miserable they are usually are the ones who won’t pull the trigger.
That usually means she enjoys your attention but isn’t interested enough to actually meet up. But if she changes her mind on 2 or 3 occasions, she’s not serious about hanging out with you. They don’t all of a sudden realize 30 minutes before your date that they can’t make it. Men who obsess over a girl they’ve never/barely talked to. You go into damage control mode and try to convince her to choose you. And if she’s with someone else, she’s choosing him.
If you’ve tried 2 or 3 times to get a girl out with no success, leave future interactions up to her. This is especially true if she cancels last minute (within the hour) or doesn’t show up at all. And if she blows you off without giving warning, she clearly doesn’t respect your time. Once you’ve made it clear that you still want her, it’s up to her to make a decision. She’s a real person with her own values, insecurities, and baggage.
And stop guilt-tripping or flipping out on her when she chooses another guy. Those actions are not going to make her think about what a great catch you are. The best way to be seen as a high-value man is to a high-value man. These aren’t tactics to make your friend crawl back to you.
This is to get over her and realize how many other incredible opportunities are out there. A girl is unsatisfied with her current relationship so she begins talking to you.
I’ve seen guys have terrible remote communication but because they sparked a connection in-person, the girl will still engage them over text.
It’s nearly impossible to build attraction or make a women suddenly feel something for you over phone or chat. It’ll be that much easier to have a girl reply with excitement and to get her out again.
There are times when you get a girl’s number and reach out, only to have no response.
Or you might message a girl, she briefly responds, and then suddenly…radio silence. You blame your own lame texting skills or hope, “Maybe she didn’t get my messages.” In almost all of my experiences as a coach and as a man: she got your messages and is choosing not to respond.
You can think, “There must be some other reason why things aren’t going anywhere.” You probably have a hard time accepting that a woman’s just not interested.