After completing many courses on strategies to meet women, he found it was his mindset that was keeping him from sharing his authentic self with them.
So Connell transformed his own life and then began coaching other men to do the same through his website, Dating
Body language can get super detailed, but a few key elements are most important.
It starts with fashion and hair but it goes beyond that—your body language is hugely important.
The great thing about body language is that unlike, say, going on a date, body language is something you can practice 24/7, even when there are no women around.
You can do well picking up women alone if you know what you’re doing, but it’s definitely not the ideal.
If you don’t have any suitable friends in your area, try the wingman forum on The Attraction Forums.
The Friend Zone is where Connell Barrett, Founder of Dating Transformation, often found himself after meeting interesting women.
He jokes that he spent so much time in the Friend Zone, he had an apartment there.
Upgrade Your "First Impression” Studies have shown that women will often decide whether a man is a “no” or a “maybe” within 30 to 90 seconds of meeting him.
It absolutely pays off to make sure you pass that first test.
The experts at Love Systems (the self-help gurus for dating advice for men) have shown that people who focus on inputs, like “I’m going to skip dessert every Thursday” have a lot more success than people who focus on outcomes, like “I’m going to lose 25 pounds this year.” With that in mind, I’ve been helping guys solve their love lives for 10 years now, and I’ve seen what works and what doesn’t. Being good with women is different from being good at just about anything else.
I have five New Year’s Resolutions for guys who want to get better with women. Print these out, paste them on your wall and hold yourself accountable. If I want to be great at guitar or basketball, I should spend as much time studying and playing guitar or basketball as I can.
It’s better to have genuine passion for your Star Trek memorabilia than it is to pretend that you’re into something because you think she’ll think it’s attractive.