Or if that thing you did with your tongue the other night weirded him out.Or if he’s emotionally unavailable and was only acting like bae material to get into your pants.
Maybe keep him at arm’s length until he’s had time to mourn.
A guy who’s afraid of serious relationships is always going to want to take things slow – emotionally, at least.
*taps on mic* We’re all familiar with sex *points at no one in particular* she gets it.
Did you know that sex is a really fun thing that a lot of people enjoy?
Maybe he wants to actually learn shit about you before hopping face first into your G-string.
At the end of the day, all you can do is speculate and decide if he’s worth the effort to stick around and overthink way too often. I’ve recently experienced the semi-new millennial dating phenomenon that’s leaving me with a blow to my fragile ego – ghosting.
If none of the above explanations seem to apply, there are (unfortunately) a slew of other reasons.
Maybe he really does like taking things slow (sexually, that is), because he’s sensitive and old school like that.
He probably has no problem hopping into bed right after he meets you though.
Chances are, he’s had bad relationships in the past and views every relationship as a way to ruin his life.
“One, I wasn’t comfortable with a girl until I spent more time around them.