This is where your ability to read people comes into play.
To help solve this issue, we teach our clients a mantra from the real estate world: Location, Location, Location.
Your comfort with the chosen location goes a long way in determining the value of the date to you and to her.
If you really like the guy you’re seeing, then take your profile down.
If you’re just having fun and enjoying each other’s company without it getting to hot and heavy, then keep your profile up and your options open.
Then when the bill comes, be at peace with reaching for your wallet.
We recommend this because non-verbal signals intensify when the bill comes.If you feel you’re paying too much, your face and vibe will convey your unhappiness no matter how hard you try to hide it.As a result, she might feel added guilt that you just paid for her.Succeed and you can impress her without uttering a word.Mishandle this situation, however, and the date might go downhill fast.The dilemma is further complicated because there’s no uniform “right” answer.