If you’re on niche apps and you live in a small town, you’re not going to be getting a lot of results so it’s important to look at your options and pick the one that works best for you.
I went into a little more detail on how to research a good dating site or app in my “How to Make Online Dating Easier” training video, which you can get for free by clicking here.
If you start your conversations with: “Hey, nice profile, what are you up to this weekend?
Your tone and attitude towards online dating needs to be positive and fun.
Once you accept that there’s a different way to approach online dating, you become a sponge willing to absorb knowledge.
I covered this in 10 reasons why you suck at dating but it’s still totally true.
Your profile and your photos are the first impression you’re putting out into the dating world and they need to be good.
Notes on how to find good photos can be found here (#10) and here is some info on how to write a good profile. You’ve been online dating for years and nothing has worked.
Have you ever thought that the reason why it’s not working is because maybe you’re missing a piece of the puzzle? You spend a lot of time messaging, swiping, reading profiles and you end up getting nowhere. If this is the case for you, don’t worry, that’s how 99.9% of people approach online dating. Online dating is just a means to an end, it’s like trying to find a job.The video is a free video that is meant to help you up your dating game and keep you online for longer.That way you’re not tempted to give up which kills your chances of finding an awesome partner.You decide quickly if you want to message them or not and then move on.Don’t fall in love with profiles, photos or messages.If you can do this with an open mind and apply new ways of thinking to your process, you will be much more successful.